Learning Experience Through Marriage....

Learning Experience through Marriage...

A marriage life considers of romantic relationship between husband and wife, trust, understanding, patience, loving, effective communications and goals of working together so called as unity. Without all this most marriages break and ends up into divorce/separation.

I was glad that I was the youngest in my family so I was able to observe all my elderly siblings marriage life, including some of my cousins marital life. I again recall that the gospel and the members had taught me a lot of things which eventually helped me gain understanding of what I can do better when I get marry.

I am so happy to have my husband as my eternal companion meaning that we were blessed to be sealed in the temple and clearly understand the roles and responsibility of husband and wife. Marriage was not a easy step of my life, changes gave me new duties, gain support, have a healthy relationship.

Yes, of course there are days were my husband and I are not agreeing to do what we wanna do individually but I learned by observing people and families around me that someone has to forgive or come down rather than be tit for tat. My first experience in marriage life was when I couldn't make breakfast early for my husband as he left for job. My husband never complained and kept going to job without lunch or breakfast. There was one week he got pretty sick with stomach upset by eating outside food and I felt very embarrassed that I let him get sick by eating food outside. He still never complained, the next day I made some breakfast and learned many recipes that I could make for breakfast.

I was glad for that learning experience through my marriage because it helped me understand that someone has to give up or come down and be nicer in marriage. My husband has been very appreciative and I love preparing food for him and help him stay healthy. Life is simply more beautiful when small kind acts are done in a more loving way.