I always thought it such an awkward topic to talk, share and read. It’s been a wonderful 3+ years of our marriage and I look forward to have more of those roller coaster ride with my hubby. In school it is common to teach students in 6/7th grade about reproduction in human life. When I was in school, I don’t remember anything that I understood regarding intimacy and when the time came to be married, I knew very little about sexual intimacy (“how to have a child” or “how do you get pregnant”). My mom thought I knew as a grown up girl about intimacy in marriage life. I wish someone was there to guide me or talk about it. May be then I would have not got pregnant so soon. Not that I am not happy to have a child in our life, I really think without him I would have not learned some great principle of life and that experience of becoming pregnant was a good choice. But just like in a few months of our marriage we gained the responsibility to become parents.
I learned through my marriage, how and what and why we need intimacy in marriage. My marriage was a great place to learn the fact that intimacy in marriage is not a secret subject, every marital partner experience it with their spouse. In fact, I learned through my marriage it is something you can talk about and read books to get educated.
I enjoyed reading this article by Brother Sean E. Brotherson and I would like to share that article with you all. I felt the best definition explained in such simple words that one could understand and I agree with Brother Brotherson’s mother that sometimes an intimate relationship is fun, comforting, spiritual, romantic and sometimes it is a willingness in love. I adore the great understanding , love, caring, comfort and joy I had received by living a healthy sexual intimacy in my marriage and I am not shy or awkward to share.
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